Relationship Healing – Part 2

The solo work 

If you want to experience better interaction with your loved ones , sometimes the work all comes down to one person, the person who decides they want a different way.  It could be that others are so entrenched in their patterns and the reality they know, seeing another option is difficult.  Don’t let this cause you to think it’s impossible to change your relationship and don’t buy into believing that people never change.  People can change by changing their thoughts and then their responses and actions.  This can start with one.  One person practicing alone is perfectly fine because that’s all it takes to get the ball rolling.  A lot of relationship work can happen at the soul level without verbal communication.  How?  Others can feel when you’ve resolved any negativity or discontentment, even if they’re not aware of why they feel differently.  Your loved one may have nostalgic recollections of you, a softening of thoughts, or you may come into their thinking more frequently when you’re practicing acceptance, forgiveness, and sending compassion to their soul.  You will see them in a new light and they will feel it.