Real

“If everyone loves you, you’re probably playing it waaay too safe.  If you’re real, at least a few people might be annoyed.  A little criticism can sometimes be a very good sign.”  –  Tosha Silver 

Sometimes we have to speak up or we may choose to hold silence to honor what feels right in discerning response to situations.  If your truth steps on somebody’s toes, maybe that’s okay once in a while.  People can grow through and because of tension, which isn’t to say you should create it unnecessarily but you also don’t have to avoid those tight spots.  You may find that facing an uncomfortable situation clears the air to relate on more agreeable terms or you may find that a silent composition is the best answer.  Being quiet isn’t necessarily an avoidance as it may convey a peaceable intention.  However, silence can be misinterpreted as it leaves room to wonder.  Do what is real for you.  Speak when you need to and hold silence when that’s your honest and real response.

Thank you to  Rachael King for the incredible photo!