Belief Patterns

Letting go of preexisting belief patterns has become a natural flow from focusing on ‘being present with self’ in the previous post. Not to lose the fabric of one’s self or throw ethics out the window, but to open up to the possibility that thoughts may have been hindering growth and a more full existence in the past. The object is to be fresh and fully awake for what each day will bring.

If there are beliefs in you about what you can or cannot do, if you are not open to seeing ways around or through a situation, and if you hold fast to past experiences as more than a teacher then you may be limiting your present experience.  Let’s make room for more of the good ‘stuff’ by eliminating what no longer serves us.

My child has adopted a pet lizard in the last month: a bearded dragon named Gandalf.  In watching his lizard grow we have seen some starting signs of molting.  As the lizard’s form grows, we can literally see him shed the old to make way for new; a perfect analogy to my mind in our own process of allowing our inner selves to shed as we grow and change.

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Presence with Self

Gather everything you think about yourself as a strength and place these things as your focus for the longest possible increments of time.  While focusing on your own strengths you will find it easier to draw out those of others as well because with practice it will become your habit.  We often fall victim to patterns of habit energy ingrained in years and years of acting without clear thought about what it is that we are doing or passing on to others.  How about highlighting everything that is your best and the best of others instead?   When you train your mind to find the good parts of people (this means you too!) or situations it becomes easier to reside in a place of acceptance.  This perspective assists with actively living from a balanced center and connecting to the infinite wisdom of your soul.

It is my goal for this week to have presence with self and to move from the center.  By that I specifically mean:

1. Focus on good feeling thoughts

2. Express Gratitude

3. Act in accordance with desired change

I know there will be challenges and unpredictable occurrences  but the place from which we operate can be consistent. Here’s to being consistently present and focused on the thoughts we generate about ourselves and the actions we share with others!

Please join me if you’re up for it this week and let me know how it goes …

Bravery!

From the movie Ratatouille:

“I know I’m supposed to hate humans, but there’s something about them. They don’t just survive, they discover, they create…I mean, just look at what they do with food!”

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Sometimes the bravest thing you can do in a day is to taste something new and different. One of our favorite things to do is go to the seafood counter with our 4 year old and let him choose what we have with dinner that night.  Living in Texas, seafood isn’t the most popular thing around and I love fostering the ‘odd ball’ choice.

Try something new and strange and scary this weekend with a brave friend!

A plate can have one new item and two old favorites.  The two old favorites can draw you into Mindful Eating.  Close your eyes, chew a few moments longer and see if you can put words or feelings to the taste.

 

The Journey of a Breath

“Feelings come and go like clouds in a windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.” ~Thích Nhat Hạnh

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I was asked today, before one of my yoga classes, to teach them how to breathe.  Then they asked, “Why don’t I know how to breathe?  Why hasn’t this been taught to me before, what’s the problem with our culture that we don’t know how to breathe?”

As adults, we usually breathe from our chests unconsciously.  Our bodies take over and we stay alive every day with most of our attention focused on productivity, earning and spending money, food, and I’m sure you can fill in a few more blanks.  This is an act that nourishes our entire bodies, calms our minds, and allows for ‘a say’ in our mood and reactions at any given time.  Yet, we leave our breath to a small and quiet rhythm with little notice.

Breathing is the only vital function that we have full and continuous control over.

3 Part Breath:  Reclined or seated, place one hand on your lower belly and the other on your chest.  Relax your torso and begin to breath naturally, flowing toward long, slow inhales and exhales.  Notice which hand rises first or if both are equal.  Let your mind divide your inhale into 3 parts: lower belly, middle ribs and chest.  As you begin fill your torso with air starting low and pausing in between each of these 3 sections.  Retain that breath for a moment before allowing your exhale to flow slowly down and empty your torso 1/3 at a time.

Learning to breathe with purpose is about slowing down and listening, relaxing, and leaking air in slowly. This leak, this Ocean Breath, creates a sound much like the rhythmic, subtle ocean. We then have time to observe and impact the journey of each inhale and each exhale.

“Inhale, and God approaches you. Hold the inhalation, and God remains with you. Exhale, and you approach God. Hold the exhalation, and surrender to God.” ~Krishnamacharya

 

 

 

The Uphill Flow

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Post by:   Tracy Weaver, Life Coach, EFT Practitioner

So there you are doing something, some cranky ol’ bear of a task, that really really was not even on the same planet as your “Can’t wait to!” list. What’s the use, gotta get it done. What choice do you have? Physically, maybe not so many choices at the moment. But inside, in that interesting universe called your mind, your imagination? Well! If anybody knew the things you think about!

So, what you’re saying is, you actually do have choices, they’re just inside your head instead of outside. Well, what’s wrong with that? Your emotions are reactions to your thoughts, right? An idea pops up and you react to it. The thought makes you feel better, the same, or worse. If what you’re thinking isn’t helping you to feel good – seems obvious – change the thoughts! Look, if you were alone watching TV and you didn’t care much for the program, what would you do in a heartbeat? Grab that remote and find a more enjoyable program, right? Darn straight.

You may be stuck doing some task, but chances are there is some room inside to choose thoughts, memories, imaginings that make you happier. Let’s just work backwards here. Start here: how would you like to feel right now? Thought so. Well, what kind of thoughts or memories make you feel that way? Without abandoning attention to your task, could you call up just enough of a memory or use a little creative imagination to catch that feeling? That’s it, I saw that little smile. Now, hook onto that good feeling. Just enjoy its company for a bit. Doesn’t have to be a memory, you know. What about your secret plans, your cherished goals? Nobody can take those from you, and they would just love a visit from you.

If you are having a tough time getting the flow going, you might need some bigger guns, at least to start. How about some music? What tunes make you feel the best, make you soar? How about a little soulful singing on your part? Depending on your task, what about a recorded book? A self-improvement audio course? Nature sounds? If you can spare your eyes, what about movies you’ve been meaning to watch? They say you can learn anything on YouTube, right?  Here’s a challenging one, how aware and alert can you be? Wake up your senses. Reach out and really hear all the sounds going on around you. What’s happening out there? How about smells? Anything you didn’t notice before? I can see you’re getting the drift.

You know, if you really wanted to, you could do your onerous task and still have a party going on inside! It’ll take some practicing, and maybe you’ll have to let go of some resentment so you have room to think some better thoughts, but really, which way would you rather spend your time? Thought so.

Our Thanks to Tracy for contributing!

Connect the Dots

“Learn how to see.  Realize that everything connects to everything else.”  – Leonardo da Vinci

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A child’s game of connecting dots is much like our task as adults in reaching for understanding our world.  Being human can create a feeling of separation, of coming and going alone.  This is an illusion; we are each part of something much more than ourselves.

What connections can you find this week and where will you find them?  Perhaps you will look to nature, to the coming and going of the sunlight, or pause for the evening sky.  Consider taking a long look internally or into others.  Perhaps you will spy a vast system of interconnection in these seemingly separate parts by making the effort to be present with sight.

 

 

Cheers!

For the weekend, I thought it would be fun to share my Sangria recipe.  Invite some friends over and have FUN!

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  • 1 large bottle of Red Table Wine (I use Fronterra-Cab/Merlot mix $9)
  • 1 cup of Spiced Rum
  • 2 cups of GOOD Orange Juice, no cheap imitation!
  • 2 small lemons squeezed or 7 seconds of lemon juice squeezed
  • 3 limes juiced or 10 seconds of lime juice squeezed
  • 1/2-3/4 cup of powdered sugar, start small and add to taste, using a whisk to thoroughly mix
  • 8 oz bag of frozen berries, I stick mostly with raspberries, blackberries, blueberries and small slices strawberries because the taste the best when eating at the end.
  • 3-4 dashes of nutmeg

A sliced orange can be a festive garnish.  Mix and drink right away or keep it over night!  Letting it marinate is never a bad thing.

Truly a party in a glass.  Have one for me and if you try it I’d love to see a picture on the comments!

 

 

 

 

 

Messenger

hello my name is nora 🙂

are you crazy? that’s what people may say if you believe in angels. i believe in angels. i’m 7. i’m going to be 8 soon. my angel has long golden hair. she has blue eyes. she likes to wear red shoes. she is kind to all animals and people. she lives in the middle of the road on our street. her home disappears if you don’t know how to look for it in the right way. cars drive through it!

do you like angels? they make you feel positive when you’ve been feeling down. i think angels come from a place deep in your heart that is filled with love. they come if you’re having trouble. they know how to cheer you up.

bye! thank you for reading my post.

an·gel
[ˈānjəl]
NOUN

1. a spiritual being believed to act as an attendant, agent, or messenger of God, conventionally represented in human form with wings and a long robe
2. a person of exemplary conduct or virtue

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Peaceful Waking

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This week, when waking, try to find a peaceful center before you do anything else.  Allow your mind to come into consciousness, breathe into your belly and back, feel the sheets under you, let the breath reach into your toes and your fingers, and be at peace.  Do not allow thinking to be present that would hinder your oneness with feeling. You are worth taking the first minutes of your waking day to generate calm and ease about yourself.  Bring awareness to your gratitude for the moment in which you find yourself awake.  If you have created space in your routine for stretching or exercise you can move into that from here.  If your routine involves getting up straight away to hustle, these first moments in the morning can be a grounded beginning to your day of activity.  This attention to the manner in which you wake can also serve as a base point for other times in the day that you may feel off balance.  Go back to your peaceful center whenever you need.